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Re: Older ladies in hot outfits?
« Reply #15 on: July 14, 2007, 06:15:58 pm »

There is something about heels that can really make the right woman look great. I absolutely hate these glorified flip flops I see some women wearing these days. Of course, the heels need to be good quality (I spent a load of time living in Nothamptonshire, where real shoes used to be made before the days of cheap and crappy imports) cheap rubbish simply does not cut it, your feet will thank you if you wear decent ones. Fancy fashion shoes are a definite no no, only good traditional styles work. Platforms look terrible, way too hooker like.

Personally I tend to wear all leather, either an Oxford or a Brogue in black or brown. Casual, I like moccasins, boat shoes or a decent pair of trainers.

Clothes wise, I tend to go with a pair of smart trousers, usually in natural materials. A label shirt (always cotton), got plenty of name brands in my wardrobe, and a label silk tie, I have around 20 of them. I wear a suit if the occasion requires it, though in the summer it is usually too hot. Winter I have a knee length black wool coat which is pretty good from a power dressing point of view. Casual is usually jeans (always black) and either a casual shirt or a polo shirt. I'm not a great jumper person, though I plan to get some the next time I go to Dubai.
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« Reply #16 on: July 14, 2007, 08:55:55 pm »

To heck with older women dressing hot.  Let's get some of the younger ones to stop wearing what they do!  I'm all for dressing well no matter your shape, but do some of these girls look in a mirror before they leave their houses?  I don't want to see muffin tops hanging out of jeans that are too low with a top that's too high.  Put a cute button down shirt over it and leave it open.  Slimming but not too revealing.  And the shorts.  Oh my, the shorts.  I don't need to see your buttcheeks hanging out of the bottom of your shorts!  Especially if your legs aren't your best feature.  Add a couple of inches and spare me the view of the jiggling inner thigh cellulite that moves with every step.  Ugh!  Sorry, but this happens to be one of my pet peeves.  I suppose it's tremendously judgemental of me.  My bad.  But I truly feel bad knowing the kinds of looks/comments/thoughts that these outfits will solicit.  I guess I was hurt too many times growing up by this type of thing (and I was the ultimate in conservative dressing growing up).  I hate to think of others being subjected to it.

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LOL!  I feel your pain.  I graduated from the University of Michigan, right next to one of the fastest US cities statistically (Detroit), and the amount of this on campus just boggled my mind.  Particularly amazing were those *Juicy* pants that were in for a while, so some girls with muffin top and huge jiggling love handles would walk around with *Juicy* printed on their ass.  That one tickled the gag-reflex a little every time.
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« Reply #17 on: July 15, 2007, 04:27:13 am »

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". I generally prefer women to have their own style and their own face. I am frankly nauseated by the current fad for women to have parts of their faces surgically altered to fit a mass marketed preconception. Likewise fake boobs are, to me, mutilation. Girls, no matter what your shape, there are plenty of folk out there with corresponding proclivities.

To the original question: there are many men who appreciate what's called a MILF - consult wiktionary on the meaning of that if you must. MILFs often wear age-inappropriate attire, but they get away with it because of http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/05/070523105948.htm - the way they move.

A lady may have a weathered visage and still turn heads left and right. Or she may be in the blush of nubility and launch a thousand ships - away. Universally the very best beauty aid is a welcoming smile. There's not a man on the planet that can resist that, nor a man who can find beauty on a frowning face.

Well, okay, Marilyn Monroe could make a frown pretty. But she was such a skilled face-dancer she did that like the Mona Lisa - when you look at her frown what you see is the smile that should be there instead.
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« Reply #18 on: July 15, 2007, 05:30:20 am »

Tis amazing what can be faked these days, fake hair, fake eyebrows, fake eyelashes, fake noses, fake lips, fake boobs, fake orgasms, is there anything real left on a woman these days?
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« Reply #19 on: July 15, 2007, 06:15:41 am »

Hey Trina, what was it Falconcy said this whole Men's Department thing was supposed to be about? :)

But seriously I did think twice about using that acronym. In the end I couldn't quite figure out why I shouldn't. I've heard it used in public conversation several times in the last year, generally in a complimentary way.

Then again Aussies tend to regard prudery per se as comical. Therefore suggesting my use of the term MILF may be inappropriate constitutes racial intolerance and I look forward to your apology post haste

:) ** 2.

BTW very cool and apt mona lisa. But there's a better one here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUSqV5jcn5Q
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« Reply #20 on: July 15, 2007, 06:23:33 am »

Here is a link to a biography on one woman who, to me, was beautiful, stylish, unique and alluring in her senior years - from within to without. That would be artist/potter, Beatrice Wood. According to her biography, men found her very attractive. She lived to 108 years and said, said the secret of her longevity was “art, books, chocolates and young men”.  :P I think she is stunning with grey hair, in the photos of her in sari, and in the black and white photos on page 3, all which show that beauty - an inner life-fire. She took to wearing the East-Indian sari, which gave her a unique, artsy style that complemented her being. Even in the photo of her at 105 on page 3, she looks beautiful. I've mixed the pages up below, as most of the photos of her in later life are on page 3.

http://www.beatricewood.com/biography_3.html
http://www.beatricewood.com/biography.html
http://www.beatricewood.com/biography_2.html

Coco Chanel is another woman who was immensely attractive, imho. And Katherine Hepburn and Jaqueline Onassis Kennedy.

As for men, Pablo Picasso is one who stands out to me as someone who I would probably have found irresistably attractive if he were in my generation - i.e, not dead, yet. Not his facial features so much, and not his body build. Rather, the power of eyes with their intensity of focus, his passion/spirit for life and his pursuits (art) - even his passion for women.  

http://www.facade.com/celebrity/Pablo_Picasso/
http://www.sapergalleries.com/PicassoPhotoPortrait.jpg
http://www.amb-cotedazur.com/image/Mougins%20Picasso477085.jpg

I remember, as a teenager, being attracted to my husband because of his facial features (not his body), particularly his eyes, but mostly, I was drawn to his self-confidence. There are different kinds of "attractiveness." The best is when the outer person (looks, expressions, etc.) are so affected by the inner spirit that they become incredibly attractive, sexy, beautiful or handsome whether or not the physical features are particularly attractive (in cultural standards of beauty).

Ah, chit! Peter et al, I diidn't even look to see what "department" this was -- MEN'S! I had chosen NOT to post here in order to honor its purpose. Now I see I've posted twice  in it!! Sorry, men. You are just too interesting!!!
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« Reply #21 on: July 15, 2007, 06:44:51 am »

Ooh! Beatrice Wood at 105 is hot! A GGMILF ...

If you'd like a similarly wonderful example of an old hottie you might check out the 1970s cult classic "Harold and Maude" - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cBxP_331mTw - Ruth Gordon is to die for.

Then there's Rodin's inevitatable "Celle Qui Fut La Belle Heaulmiere":



And here's an old stud for the ladies out there - Mark Twain shortly before his death:

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« Reply #22 on: July 16, 2007, 04:31:32 am »

Oh-my-gosh, look at what I've found while looking for the MILF meaning  :shock:  :shock:   :shock:

I wasn't aware there'd be all those monikers  :lol:

according to the blog where I found it, it's from wikipedia:



* Puma* aka young cougar usually in their late 20's to early 30's
* Bobcat refers to a woman in her 30's who sexually pursues younger men.
* Toyboy (or boytoy) refers to a young boy or man in a relationship with an older woman or man. Use of this terminology is considered by some to be impolite.
* Haguar, a seldom-used neologism, refers to an unattractive older woman, usually in her 40s, who makes unsuccessful sexual advances on younger men (e.g. an ugly Cougar; etymologically the word appears to be a portmanteau of "hag" and "jaguar").
* Cougar refers to an older woman, usually in her late 30's or 40's who sexually pursues younger men. Term used by motion picture movie, Oceans 13.
* Merlin refers to an older man, usually in his 50's or 60's who sexually pursues younger women. May originate from the idea of the "Top Gun" movie characters where the character of 'Merlin' had the partner of with the call sign of 'Cougar'. Another idea for the origination are the older grey haired wise man trying to make magic happen in attracting the younger more attractive women.
* Chickenhawk describes an older gay man who sexually pursues younger males, i.e. "twinks"/"chickens" or underage boys. The term was used as the name of a television documentary on the subject of NAMBLA.
* Golddigging refers to a relationship in which a young person pursues an older person for monetary gain.
* Jailbait refers to a particularly sexually attractive person, female or male, below the legal age of consent. This designation connotes enticement to endanger oneself of being prosecuted for statutory rape.
* Lolita refers to a sexually precocious young girl who is the object of desire of a significantly older man. Used in English the term refers to the title character of Vladimir Nabokov's novel Lolita, who is referred to by the book's narrator, Humbert Humbert, as a nymphet. While "nymphet" is still used to refer to children, "Lolita" has come to be applied to older adolescents and young women in the context of pornography. Nabokov's character is believed to have been based on Lillita McMurray (stage name Lita Grey), who began a relationship with Charlie Chaplin when she was 14 or 15 and he was in his early 30s.
* May-December Romance is a general and non-prejudicial expression for an age-disparate relationship. The expression draws an implicit analogy between one's lifetime and the time of year. Thus "May" refers to the younger partner, who is in the spring of his or her life. "December" is the elder partner, in the winter of his or her life.
* MILF (Wiktionary link) - (Mom I'd Like to F***) refers to mothers who attract the sexual attention of high-school boys. This acronym was popularized by the movie American Pie and is frequently referred to in pornography. The term is also sometimes euphemistically construed as standing for Mama Is Looking Fine.
* DILF - (Dad I'd Like to F***) Compare to MILF.
* Mrs. Robinson, a reference to the movie The Graduate, refers to an older woman romantically involved with a younger man (most likely can be referred to as a Cougar (slang) as well. As the character of Mrs. Robinson wears clothes with animal print motifs, including the skin patterns of predatory felines, it is tempting to consider that character as a possible origin for the slang cougar.
* Robbing the Cradle (also known as Cradle Snatching) may refer to a situation in which an older individual seduces a much younger one; the term stigmatizes the act through its use of the word "robbing". The tone of this phrase is highly situational—in some cases, where consensuality in a relationship is clear, it is often used in a jesting manner, but where consensuality may not be evident, it can be intended in a very pejorative sense. People who 'rob the cradle' are commonly called "cradle snatchers" or "cradle robbers", and are often met with derision by third parties.
* Robbing the Grave may refer to the opposite situation, where the object of affection is an elderly person. As it makes punning reference to archaeological tomb robbers, the term is often used to convey a similar idea to "gold digging", when a wealthy elderly person marries a much younger spouse.


(***  sorry I took an hour b4 realizing this could be profane so I'm replacing with ***)
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« Reply #23 on: July 16, 2007, 08:13:48 am »

Nice youtube movies, guys!! And nice opinions from you all too!!  :)

Since very young, when talking about feminine beauty I'd always give Ingrid Bergman as the example of perfect beauty. Till this day, with all the beautiful women from the past and the present, I still think so:





As to men... extensive list  :D yeah Picasso too, handsome DILF  :D  KIDDING but the Most Magnetic of All, maybe so because there's an intellectual influence too...  Carl Sagan !!!




Both are gone by now ... if you ask me about living ones, I'd have to think. Maybe Rodrigo Santoro  :D but I don't wanna be a Cougar  :D
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« Reply #24 on: July 17, 2007, 10:40:52 am »

Older ladies dressing hot? I guess it depends on the definition of "hot". I think a lady, no matter the age can look hot in an outfit that covers her from neck to knee, even ankle. Depends on attitude and how you carry yourself.  Showing skin is ok if it's skin worth showing, but it has to include your total look, face included for it to look sexy.
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« Reply #25 on: July 17, 2007, 10:59:00 am »

Actually, it's not how much skin you show that makes a women look sexy, if anything it is what she covers up and how she does it that will turn me on. A smart business suit with a subtle hint of what may be underneath really gets the mind racing. Classy heels show confidence. At the end of the day, the mind is the biggest erogenous zone we have. Get that one working and you'll have a guy going crazy.
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« Reply #26 on: July 17, 2007, 09:43:33 pm »

Yesterday i saw this old looking woman on the bus - really old looking with white/grey/yellow hair and a really old looking no make up on face.  i though tshe was wearing tiny shorts but a second glance showed me that it was a miniscule skirt!!!  she did have young looking nice legs tho... :?  she was wearing socks and trainers too...hmmm 
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« Reply #27 on: July 17, 2007, 10:36:41 pm »

Sounds like a stereotypical German tourist ;-)
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« Reply #28 on: July 18, 2007, 08:19:33 am »

hah hah funny stories  :D but I think a distinction should be made between regular cities and coastal cities, where you don't know if someone is headed for or coming from the beach (like where I live).

Well, to tell you the truth I like the nonchalance of elderly ladies like a large group of English grannies on the table next to us last year at Monte Gordo, all in shorts, flashy hats and bikini tops, who were already there as we arrived, with their table full of pints of beer. They kept drinking, laughing, drinking more, singing even!!, tellling stories... They stayed there when we left, it was pretty evident they were HAPPY, and I couldn't help thinking I wish I have such spirit of being well with life when (if) I reach that age!  :D
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« Reply #29 on: July 18, 2007, 11:48:08 am »

Unfortunately this was a most un- stereotypical maltese 'nanna'   :? and was that her grandson with her or a toyboy??? :shock:  :lol:
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