I'm a bit complicated I think! I have the two sides, one more dashy, another more discreet. It depends on the day! And I dress more "according to my age" for work, I don't go there with mini skirts or strap tops. Not that it's not allowed: my work is totally permissive as to dressing. But I know the comments my coworkers (all male) would make, and I don't want to put my hubby through that (he's my coworker!!!
) In fact, before we even dated, I used to dress more "sexily", as I was young and slim, and HE was among the male workers so he heard what they said (malicious wicked comments :shock:), and told me about it when we started dating. He asked me to avoid dressing like that to spare him - and myself - from the comments. So I did. But, on weekends I wear minis, shorts, cheap flip-flops, tops, etc, very casually, especially when I'm home and just go outside to the coffee shop, the supermarket, walk the dog, etc. If we go to a mall, movie, visit, etc I may dress more formally.
Like losing-it, my fave are jeans. Long, bermudas, shorts, skirts, jackets, and Ts or tops, and ethnic stuff too. I have a nice collection of tunics, embroidered, with little mirrors, etc. That's my hippie side too. Those are items I think I'll never give away! I also have very feminine skirts and jackets that I don't wear so much, but I like them for special days. My fave stores are Bershka, H&M and Mango, but maybe only those of you in Europe know them. Bershka is very teenage-ish, my daughter only shops there; but many items are still wearable by older women if they're not too fat (the L size is what you call a 10 or 12!!) and they just have S-M-L, nothing bigger. Mango is very stylish and more "ladylike". H&M has both sides and is also stylish. The ethnic stuff I buy at local fairs, or stores like Natura, which also has beautiful exotic objects for the house http://www.naturaselection.com/
Today at work I'm wearing khaki knee-length bermudas from Mango and a white shirt with thin green lines from H&M, short sleeved and puffy on the shoulders (I don't know how you call it) and wedge jute sole espadrilles - khaki with a silver embroidery. What are you wearing, both gals and guys? Do tell, it will add to my mental image of you!