Ah, here's your update
You're not doing that bad! I haven't eaten much and yet I haven't dropped more. Well, actually I've been bouncing up and down between 60 and 61 kg, but now I'm at 61 for like 3 days. My long, long PMS is about to start.
I can related to your family feeding troubles. My son (19 yo) eats about everything I put on the table, even my veggie mixes. My daughter (12) is pickier, like your two teens she likes fast food and hates veggies (except lettuce with onion, and cucumbers). She eats a little fruit when I nag her enough... Fortunately there's a couple veggie soups she will eat.
My hubby isn't picky but only likes very little processed food. He loves booiled and grilled, very simple. When I cook something more sophisticated, such as lasagna, which the kids love, he eats something else.
His son (21) is like our daughter, picky-ish. When we are all together I don't have much choice, I keep repeating meals. Not very creative!
BTW howz your hubby doing SLD-wise?
I hope your taste for salads and veggies return. Can't you nuke frozen mixed veggies? It's very handy. Sometimes I do that, when I'm too lazy to prepare fresh veggies... (which is very often!)